DEREK, NAGSALITA NA SA PAMBABASTOS DAW KAY JOHN LLOYD
ni Reggee Bonoan - @Sheet Matters | March 5, 2021
Hindi nagustuhan ng mga netizens ang video post ni Derek Ramsay na magkakatabi silang nakahiga ng girlfriend niyang si Ellen Adarna at ng anak nitong si Elias habang hinahawakan ng bagets ang mukha niya.
Ayon sa bagets ay may spider sa mukha si Derek kaya hinahawakan niya ang buong face nito.
Natawang sabi ng aktor, “What are you doing, you’re giving me a facial? What, I have spider on my face?” At sabay yakap ni Elias sa aktor.
Tatlong emoji hearts ang caption ni Derek sa video at si Ellen naman ay, “My boys, my heart. I kennot (with smiling heart emoji).”
Sinagot ito ng aktor, “@maria.elena.adarna Ako na bahala sa heart mo, Love.”
Umabot na sa mahigit 440K views ang post at marami ang hindi nagkagusto rito.
Say ni @iamdjmbalotskie, “@ramsayderek07 why so insensitive naman for JLC's feelings. Ramdam ko ‘yung pain niya as a father. God bless to him.”
Sumagot naman si Derek, “@iamdjmbalostkie I mean no disrespect to him. I know he is a good father.”
Nagbigay din ng punto de vista niya ang dating single mom na si @brixcherry at hindi nito nagustuhan ang video post bilang respeto sa ama ng bata na si John Lloyd Cruz.
“That’s so wrong in so many levels. What you do with your lover/partner is your business but must you really post it for everyone to see? I was once a single mom myself so I know what Elena is going through but I never disrespected the father of my child.
“No matter what happened between us, I could never do that, you and JLC once loved each other so I can’t even begin to understand why you guys had to post this. As for you and Derek whom I once idolized and respected.
“I am very disappointed in you. You are a man yourself and was hurt a few times, how do you think JLC feels when he sees this with his son in it. I am completely and utterly disgusted.
“What exactly are you guys telling people? You guys should be ashamed of yourselves. People already know you two are together, isn’t that enough?”
Maraming nag-agree sa pahayag na ito ni @brixcherry.
Pero hindi naman ito pinalampas ni Ellen, “@brixcherry so everyone needs to adopt your values and beliefs just because you think it’s right? Because you think it’s disgusting? Have an open mind and open heart (emoji heart). That is what the world needs. Not your unsolicited advice and let’s say, I listen to you what would it do for you? Believe what you want, just don’t want impose them on others. (emoji wink eye).”
Maraming violent reactions kaya naka-turn-off na ang comments section ng IG post ni Derek.
Pero sa isang online website ay sunud-sunod ang mga komento ng netizens na nagpakilalang anonymous na hindi rin sila pabor.
“Please Derek, 'wag mo nang idamay 'yung anak sa post-post mo.”
“Totoo, sabihin nang liberated views nila sa buhay, pero ano ba naman ‘yung mag-isip si Derek na irespeto 'yung mararamdaman ni JLC. Si Ellen kasi, walang pakialam 'yan, eh, makikita naman sa views n’ya in life.”
“Sabagay, baka insensitive s’ya ‘coz 'di naman lumaki ang anak ni Derek sa kanya. Basta lang talaga maka-gain ng attention sa tao, sige lang siya.”
“Na-miss n’ya ‘yung attention ng madlang people kahit pa bina-bash siya, okay lang kay Derek, pati na rin si Ellen.”
“Ellen and Derek are the type who can’t understand and refuse to accept other people’s opinion, even if it’s a genuine concern. Sad for the young child to be exposed to this kind of environment.”
“Hindi mo anak 'yan, Derek, uyy, 'wag ka masyadong trying hard.”
"True! Some things need not to be posted on social media. These two are so wrong in so many ways! So disgraceful! Feeling Jerry Maguire si Derek.
“No one's stopping her from having a relationship. You know what's not acceptable? 'Yung iba-ibang lalaki ang nakikita ng anak mo na katabi mo sa gabi. If she's not going to settle down with Derek or not until she's 100% sure, ‘wag naman n’ya isali ang anak. If she wants Elias na maging close kay Derek, that's perfectly fine, pero hindi naman ‘yung nakikita ng anak mo lumi-live-in ka sa iba-ibang lalaki. Whether she admits it or not, mae-embed sa utak ng bata na normal ‘yan at it’s not surprising na ganyan din ang gawin ng anak niya paglaki. She should set a good example for her son naman.”
"Itong si Ellen talaga. Protektahan mo ang anak mo. Ang bagu-bago pa ng relasyon n'yo, nakikipag-live-in ka na kasama ang iyong anak. Kung wala kang anak, makipag-live-in ka sa boyfriend mo kasi you're free to choose.”
“Putting your son in that situation na bago pa lang kayo and anything can happen, medyo irresponsible. Pa'no kung mag-break kayo at naging attached na si Elias kay Derek? Kawawa si Elias. Madaming single moms na hindi agad ipinapakilala sa bata ang idine-date. Minsan 1 year pa nga para hindi kung sinu-sinong lalaki makikilala ng mga anak nila.”
Anyway, tanda namin ay tila nag-react si John Lloyd na sana ay hindi isinasama ni Ellen ang anak nila kapag nagkikita sila ni Derek. Eh, magkarelasyon na ngayon, so paano na?